Impulsivity and caution in home buying
Wednesday, September 21st, 2011What’s your home buying style? Impulsive? Cautious? Analytic? Deep bargain hunter?
A few times in my real estate career, I’ve worked with Silicon Valley home buyers who were so anxious to purchase a home that I was concerned that their impulsivity might be a cause for buyer’s remorse later. When that happens, I try to slow them down a little – I’ll suggest “let’s look at least a few homes” if it happens that they want to buy the very first home they saw. Part of my fiduciary duty is to look out for my clients’ best interests, and sometimes that means putting the brakes on just a little (or telling them what they don’t want to hear).
More commonly, it’s the other extreme that I see in our very well educated, extremely analytic population: paralysis by analysis or an overabundance of caution. (Sometimes it’s overabundance of bargain hunting.)
The vast majority of successful Silicon Valley home buyers are somewhere in between: they set up their priorities and goals (“I want to buy in the next 4 months at this price with this location or school and this type of property and size of home”). The clearer they are on their goals, wants and needs, the easier it is to help them get it – as long as they have realistic expections. That is key!
Once – only once – I sold a Los Gatos house in which the husband purchased without the wife’s physically seeing it. This is rare! They had moved so many times that he understood precisely what mattered to her, and if the house met that list, he was good to go. (more…)





The Monte Sereno real estate market is trickier than most Silicon Valley markets to gauge because it’s so tiny. With just four thousand residents, there simply aren’t that many homes for sale in Monte Sereno at any given time and there are even fewer solds.